Customer Care in 2030

Operator : Thank you for calling Pizza Hut. May I have your…

Customer : Hello, can I order..

Operator : Can I have your multi purpose card number first, Sir?

Customer : It s eh…, hold………. on……889861356102049998-45-54610

Operator : OK… you’re Mr Singh and you’re calling from 17 Jalan Kayu. Your home number is 4094! 2366, your office 76452302 and your mobile is 0142662566. Which number are you calling from now Sir?

Customer : Home! How did you get all my phone numbers?

Operator : We are connected to the system Sir.

Customer : May I order your Seafood Pizza…

Operator : That’s not a good idea Sir.

Customer : How come?

Operator : According to your medical records, you have high blood pressure and even higher cholesterol level Sir

Customer : What?… What do you recommend then?

Operator : Try our Low Fat Hokkien Mee Pizza. You’ll like it.

Customer : How do you know for sure?

Operator : You borrowed a book entitled Popular Hokkien Dishes from the National Library last week Sir.

Customer : OK I give up… Give me three family size ones then, how much will that cost?

Operator : That should be enough for your family of 10, Sir. The total is $49.99!

Customer : Can I pay by! credit card?

Operator : I’m afraid you have to pay us cash, Sir. Your credit card is over the limit and you owe your bank $3,720.55 since October last year. That’s not including the late payment charges on your housing loan, Sir.

Customer : I guess I have to run to the neighborhood ATM and withdraw some cash before your guy arrives.

Operator : You can’t Sir. Based on the records, you’ve reached your daily limit on machine withdrawal today.

Customer : Never mind just send the pizzas, I’ll have the cash ready. How long is it gonna take anyway?

Operator : About 45 minutes Sir, but if you can t wait you can always come and collect it on your motorcycle…

Customer : What!

Operator : According to the details in system ,you own a Scooter,…registration number 1123…

Operator : Is there anything else Sir?

Customer : Nothing.! .. by the way… aren’t you giving me that 3 free bottles of cola as advertised?

Operator : We normally would Sir, but based on your records you’re also diabetic…….

Customer : #$^%&$@$%^

Operator : Better watch your language Sir. Remember on 15th July 1987 you were convicted of using abusive language on a policeman…?

Customer : Faints…..

According To Psychiatrists, Couples Who Argue Actually Love Each Other More

Relationships usually begin with hearts and butterflies.

Everything is fine and dandy. You agree with each other and you compromise. But, as the relationship moves past the “honeymoon stage,” you start to show opinions, differences, and your individual personalities. It is then that you experience a fluctuation in the harmony of the union. A relationship gets tested. If you can have healthy arguments, you can truly learn from one another.

Arguing is a major form of communication.

It shows individualism, different perspectives and the ability to teach each other. Arguments aren’t necessarily an indicator that there are problems in a relationship. Psychiatrist explains that arguing well requires skills that take time to build. Here are five of his suggestions:

  • Don’t insist on being right

  • Speak up as soon as you feel anger rising

  • Listen

  • Stick to the topic at hand

  • Don’t say something you will regret

Why Couple Who Argue Love Each Other More

Arguing doesn’t determine that a relationship is suffering.

Having arguments can actually indicate that two people have their own individual ideas and opinions. They can bring them to the table and share them in a healthy manner. Relationships that do not argue can be withdrawn and full of tension, as neither party wants to share their thoughts to not hurt each other. They may bottle it all up. The lack of arguing can also be expressed as a lack of engagement to the relationship. There may be a problem with trust. Perhaps you need to ask yourself the following questions:

How committed are you if you can express your own ideas?

Are you afraid of stepping over boundaries? In your relationship, can you truly be your authentic self? Are you afraid to speak your ideas and opinions?

Dr. Stephanie Sarkis, shared on Psychology Today, that there are seven ingredients to a healthy and happy relationship, and arguing is one of them. She goes on to explain, “I’ve never seen a healthy couple that doesn’t argue. They never fight, however – they argue. If a couple comes into my office and tells me they’ve never argued, something isn’t quite right. You can argue without fighting. Arguing is non-combative – you and your partner state your points of view without name-calling or raising your voice. Sometimes you agree to disagree – and that’s okay. Figure out what your ‘non-negotiables’ are – the things that you will not budge on. Now rethink that list. I like the saying, You can either be right, or married.”

There will always be challenges and conflicts in a relationship.

Once the initial stages pass on to stability and longevity, people tend to fall into their own territories again. They want to be heard and understood, follow their passions, and be acknowledged for who they are. Couples who argue are expressing their desires to be heard. When done constructively, it isn’t fighting. It is expressing their needs. And happy couples hear each other. In a moment of heavy discussion. they will stand their ground, and this is a sign of mutual respect. You can respect and show vulnerability.

There is a difference between angry fighting and truly expressing your thoughts in a relationship.

You learn to pick and choose your battles. You begin to understand what’s important to argue about and what you need to just let go. Author and motivational speaker, Elizabeth Gilbert, says it best: “You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.” Keeping quiet is not always a holistic or healthy way to create trust in a relationship. Being submissive is not an act of valor. It is an act of vowing down to satisfy another while feeling like a martyr in the end. Therefore, a trusting and loving relationship can argue without being angry. They can show different sides to an issue.

Couples who argue also have a tendency to be passionate.

Some couples enjoy the make-up sex after an intense argument. They thrive on this roller coaster ride that increase their hormones and blood pressure. Relationship expert Dr. Pam Spurr agrees stating, “The way in which you argue signals so much about a relationship. The wise couple acknowledges this and keeps an eye on how they treat each other over disagreements. Subconsciously, bickering demonstrates you care about each other even if while bickering you feel annoyed towards your partner. For instance, it shows that you do want your partner to drink less and look after their health. Or you do want them to be on time so that neither of you are stressed out when you have places to be and things to do, etc.”

Mutual respect, love, compromise, compassion and trust are important factors of a healthy relationship. Like everything in life, it’s about moderation. You never want to insult or disrespect a loved one. You can state your point in a manner that both parties can hear. When you are authentic in a relationship you can always share what you believe in. It’s all in how you present any discussion.

“The truest form of love is how you behave toward someone, not how you feel about them.” ~ Steve Hall

A Test Done By A Renowned Psychologist! Choose A Feather & Discover Your Hidden Personality…

When we are given the option to choose between different shapes and colors, we don’t always choose the same things. The different color and shapes we choose determines our personality, even if we aren’t aware of it.

Psychologists use this test to help determine personalities. In this article, we’ve chosen to include the 6-feather test. Depending of the structure, shape, size and color — you can choose which feather attracts you the most. Once you’ve discovered your favorite feather, you can read below more information about your personality.

THE FEATHERS AND THEIR MEANINGS…

Orange feather #1

This feather reveals that you’re highly creative and imaginative. Not only that, but you seem to possess a very strong character. In fact it’s so strong, that you may come off as ‘bossy’. What really drives you is pursuing your dreams effectively. You often get disappointed in people because you have higher expectations set for them. It’s hard for you to realize that not everyone’s a go-getter like yourself. What’s important is that you have the will-power and strength to gather your energy together and continue chasing your goals.

Purple feather #2

You are a person full of energy and have an extraordinary learning capacity. Your friends have always wondered how you’re always able to learn even the most complex things so simply. Your longing to learn may affect you in a bad way, too. You often feel lonely. Your hunger and drive to constantly learn affect your personal relationships, as you don’t devote much of your time to them. But the people that truly know you are aware of this and support you through anything. Keep these people close to you.

Yellow feather #3

People that choose this feather are known for being explosive. If you chose this feather then you have the ability to undertake multiple projects and tasks. You’re more interested in being busy and feeling productive with multiple projects rather than achieving them. This is why you seem diffused and all over the place. Of course handling many project gives you satisfaction and the journey to success itself motivates you.

Pink feather #4

While many people choose their own paths to success, you seek common interest and combine your energy with someone else to achieve goals. For instance, you can form allies and help someone because you know that you’ll succeed as well. You respect people and always try to be in harmony with them, rather than just going on your own path. You believe that helping other people will help you too.

Black feather #5

You’re a person with a very creative character, that many notice. Your artistic capabilities help you express your unique creative traits. You can paint, write or sculpt the most authentic piece of work anyone has ever seen. Also, you should learn to trust yourself more. By doing so, it’ll reflect in your work and you’ll be able to show other people what you’re worth. Trusting yourself is the main point that directs you to success.

Blue feather #6

You’re a very unique person and independent. Even when you need someones help, you try to manage things on your own. You avoid being a burden to someone or even worse, having the feeling that someone “owns” you because they’ve been helping you. You’re as authentic as can be, and people who lie make you disgusted. On the positive side, you have many real friends because of this. You have marked your character in everyones eyes and people feel that they can trust you.

It’s important to note that you may choose a different feather after some time, because after all, we’re not machines. The feathers reflect our current mood and events that we’re going through. Also, if you’re on a higher spiritual level than before, your feather choice may change.

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How To Easily Remove Skin Tags, Moles, Blackheads, Spots And Warts By Using Natural Remedies

Whether you’re young or old, at some point you will experience skin issues that will drive you crazy. Maybe it is when your hormones are starting to develop and your face breaks out with acne. Or maybe as you’ve gotten older, skin tags have started to develop. In addition to all of that, you might have a mole or a wart that is embarrassing you and you just want it gone.

The bottom line is that everyday people experience at least one of those issues, and not everyone can afford the expensive cosmetic products that apparently work perfectly. Not to mention those same products contain harmful chemicals that could make your skin worse and even harm your body.

So what do you do? The answer to that question is you go natural. You expose skin to natural remedies that are not harmful to your skin or body. The following are the best ways to treat skin issues.

So You Have a Mole: In most cases, moles are caused by “too much fun in the sun”, or it can also be caused by genetics as well. The bottom line is that you don’t want the mole, so here is what you are going to do. You’re going to get a garlic clove and cut it in half. Then take a piece and tape it to the mole and leave it there for 4 hours. The smell might be horrible but repeat it daily.

Not a fan of garlic? Then you can try apple cider vinegar. Just take a cotton ball and soak it with equal parts water and apple cider vinegar, then place it on the mole and tape it there. Leave it for eight hours and let the apple cider vinegar soak into the mole. If you repeat daily, the mole will eventually blacken and potentially fall right off. Make sure to use a very good moisturizer after; ACV can be very acidic and irritating to the skin!

The Dreaded Skin Tag: Skin tags are usually found on the neck, eyelids, and upper chest. They are growths on the skin, don’t worry, they’re benign, and can be easily removed with the help of that apple cider vinegar mix we suggested earlier. All you have to do is soak a cotton ball in the water and ACV mix and apply it to the area of the skin tag and tape it there. Leave it overnight.

If you have a skin tag around the eyelid area, try using diluted Tea Tree Oil, because you don’t want to risk damaging your eyes with some of the other products mentioned. All you have to do is soak a cotton ball in water and add 2 drops of tea tree oil to it. (Please keep in mind that tea tree oil can be irritating if it makes contact with your eyes, so apply it very carefully!)

Warts: Warts can be very displeasing to look at and are usually caused by an HPV virus. They can grow anywhere on the body and are usually smaller in size and are skin colored. So let’s remove them, shall we? The first thing you will want to try is rubbing the inside of a banana for several weeks and the wart will slowly disappear. You can also try rubbing some honey on the wart and bandage it up and let it sit while you sleep.

Do You Have Dark Spots: As we get older, dark spots are inevitable, and the more sun we are exposed to at an older age, the worse they will get. So, there are a few remedies you can try. The first one is mixing a few onions and apple juice together. Let it sit for 15 minutes then rinse it off. Repeat this daily for full effect. Or you can try applying Aloe Vera to the dark spot areas and let it sit for a half an hour.

Unclog those Pores: If you are constantly on the go, have high stress, you’re a very active individual and love the outdoors, chances are you’re experiencing acne and other skin impurities.

So here is the best way to unclog those pores. Boil some hot water. After it reaches a rolling boil, remove the pot from the flame, pour it into a bowl and lean over the steam (but don’t get too close or you can burn yourself!) and cover your head with a towel. Steam your face for about 20 minutes then go rinse it off with apple cider vinegar mixed with water.

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Husband Wanted

A lonely 70-year-old widow decided that it was time to marry again. She put an ad in the local newspaper that read: “Husband wanted! Must be in my age group, must not beat me, must not run around on me and must still be good in bed. All applicants please apply in person.”

The following day, she heard the doorbell. Much to her dismay, she opened the door to see a gray-haired gentleman sitting in a wheelchair. He had no arms or legs.

“You’re not really asking me to consider you, are you?” the widow asked: “Just look at you — you have no legs!”

The old gent smiled: “Therefore, I cannot run around on you!”

“You don’t have any arms either!” she snorted.

Again, the old man smiled: “Therefore, I can never beat you!”

She raised an eyebrow and asked intently: “Are you still good in bed?”

The old man leaned back, beamed a big smile and said: “I rang the doorbell, didn’t I?”

Psychologists Explain How to Stay Calm In An Argument

Arguments and conflicts are inevitable part of our everyday lives. No matter how hard you try to remain calm, at least once in your life you may get close to the verge of losing your temper. However, many people are unable to control themselves and their emotions during an argument, so if you are one of them you may find the following tips very helpful.

1.Take deep breaths

Taking deep breaths will help you remain calm because slow and shallow breathing are the body’s usual responses when in an argument. Deep breaths are excellent for reducing the production of adrenaline and cortisol which are stress hormones. So, try to take deep and long breaths and you will relax much faster. Inhale through your nose and exhale through your mouth.

2.Focus on your body

Being focused on what happens to your body when in an argument can be very helpful. You may notice that you are breathing shallow and you are very tensed. Once you focus on these physical sensations you will be able to relax faster. Start by relaxing your hands and shoulders and return to a more neutral state.

3.Listen actively

When people feel they are not being listened to, they often initiate arguments or some kind of conflict. Also, an argument can never be settled without active listening. So, make sure you are listening the person and make sure they are aware you are present in the moment. Don’t allow anything to distract you and in the end of the conversation make sure you have the necessary information for an intelligent response.

4.Ask open-ended questions

Asking open-ended questions is a very important part of solving a conflict. They show you have been listening actively and also that you respect the other person enough by allowing them to express their thoughts. Instead of asking “Yes” or “No” questions, try to start with “What”, “Why” and “How”. This way you show the person that you want them to answer longer rather than with just a simple yes or no.

5.Keep your voice down

Raising your voice is the easiest way to start or escalate a conflict. On the other hand, lowering it can be very helpful if you are trying to resolve the conflict. Try to calm the other person first by lowering your voice which can impart a sense of calm that can be a step forward to resolving the issue causing the conflict.

6.Agree to disagree

You can’t expect for every argument to end with results that both sides will be happy with. However, in order to avoid escalating the conflict you should try to end it before things heat up. It takes at least two people to start a conflict, and if you feel that the participant is very hostile or that the conversation is not going anywhere, you should try to separate from the argument.

We hope you will use these tips next time you have an argument and that you will be able to resolve any issues much easier without unnecessary conflicts. Being constantly stressed and angry can have serious negative effects on our health so it is always a better idea to protect yourself from the negativity. Even though you may lose your temper and act in a manner you will never be proud of, you can at least try to calm yourself down in order to avoid making mistakes you are going to regret.

How To Make Someone Feel Guilty – Psychology

A guy asked a girl in a library;

“Do you mind if I sit beside you”?

The girl answered with a loud voice; “I DON’T WANT TO SPEND THE NIGHT WITH YOU!!!”

All the students in the library started staring at the guy and he was embarrassed.

After a couple of minutes,

the girl walked quietly to the guy’s table and she told him “I study psychology and I know what a man is thinking, –

I guess you felt embarrassed, right?”

The guy responded with a loud voice: “$200 JUST FOR ONE NIGHT!? THAT’S TOO MUCH!!!” And all the people in the library looked at the girl in shock and the guy whispered in her ears;

“I study Law and I know how to make someone feel guilty”

A Silent Love, One Of The Most Touchy Love Story You Will Ever Read

From the very beginning, girl’s family objected strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family’s pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: “How deep is your love for me?” As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset. With that & the family’s pressure, the girl often vents her anger on him. As for him.. he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: “I’m not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I’ll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?” The girl agreed, & with the guy’s determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged. The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum cry, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had lost her voice…. The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents’ comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silent cry. it’s still just silent cry that accompanied her.

Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply and countless phone calls. all the girl could do besides crying is still crying…. The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy.

One day, her friend came & told her that he’s back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn’t anymore news of him. A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy’s wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name on it instead. When she was about to ask her friend what was going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her…. He used sign language to tell her, “I’ve spent a year to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I’ve not forgotten our promise.

Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.” With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled…

Psycho-Emotional TEST: Find The One That Resembles You The Most, And We Will Tell You Your Inner Traits.

The creator of this test is the famous British psychologist Pip Wilson. It was created for school children to ensure they are adapted to the new school after the first three years. Over time, they found that it also functions in adults. It helps to understand your current emotional state, what you want to have and also works to realize what your role is in society. We took the test, and were very surprised of the results.

Each of these small ‘little people’ in the tree has a different mood and occupies a unique place. To begin, choose which looks more like you now. Then choose the ‘little person’ that you want to look like.

So, who you are and who you want to be?

AN EXPLANATION OF THE TEST RESULTS:

  • If you chose the positions 1, 3, 6 or 7, it characterizes you as a motivated person who is not afraid of obstacles.
  • If your choice is within the following numbers: 2, 11, 12, or 19, it means that you are a sociable person who always wants to help friends.
  • If you have chosen the number 4 position, it defines you as a person with a stable lifestyle that wants to achieve all the success in the world without having to face many difficulties.
  • If your choice was the number 5, for sure you’re tired, with little power or motivation.
  • If you chose the number 9, you are a happy person who loves fun.
  • Number 13 or 21. You are blocked and you have many internal conflicts. You avoid relating to other people.
  • Number 8. You like to get lost in your thoughts, meditate on your things and navigate an inner world.
  • If you chose the numbers 10 or 15, you adapt well to life, and you are quiet with respect to those at your side.
  • Number 14: you are falling into an emotional abyss. Most likely that you are going through an internal crisis.
  • The number 20 generally is chosen by persons with high self-esteem, born leaders who want all listen.
  • Did you choose the number 16? Are you tired of having to support another person? But is it possible that you have seen the number 17 embraces you? In this case, you are likely to know that you are surrounded by attention.
  • If you chose the number 18 priorities in your life are balanced, and yet you feel that your career or job could be better, you’re fine because, as in the case of number 17, you are getting attention and you know how to be a good friend. You prefer the certainty about what you currently have than an expectation of what might have.

14 Symptoms That Indicate High Blood Sugar Levels!

Keeping track of your blood sugar levels is very important, as is recognizing the symptoms of high blood sugar levels. They are easy to identify and should be treated ASAP, as they can harm your health if left untreated. The symptoms may vary depending on numerous factors, but today we’re going to show you the most common symptoms of high blood sugar levels that you need to pay attention to.

Hyperglycemia develops when the body isn’t able to produce enough insulin or can’t use it properly. Insulin is a hormone that makes helps glucose from food to enter the body cells where it’s used as energy. However, if you’re suffering from insulin deficiency, the glucose is unable to be absorbed into the bloodstream. If this goes on for a prolonged period, some body parts such as the kidneys, blood vessels, nerves and eyes may be permanently damaged.

HERE ARE THE MAIN CAUSES OF INCREASED BLOOD SUGAR LEVELS:

  • Physical inactivity;
  • Fatigue;
  • The common cold;
  • Dehydration;
  • Excessive eating;
  • Excessive use of steroids.

Increased blood sugar levels don’t automatically mean diabetes, and they may be one symptom of the disease. People suffering from diabetes may not experience many symptoms, but these are the ones that indicate high blood sugar levels:

  • Frequent urination, especially overnight;
  • Blurred vision;
  • Dry mouth;
  • Thirst;
  • Impotence;
  • Difficulty focusing;
  • Slow healing of cuts and wounds;
  • Recurring infections;
  • Digestive problems;
  • Increased appetite;
  • Nerve problems;
  • Dry and itchy skin;
  • Excess belly fat and weight gain.

HOW TO MONITOR THE BLOOD SUGAR LEVELS

In order to control your blood sugar levels, it’s very important to know what foods you can eat. Foods with a high glycemic index should be avoided. The Glycemic index is a scale which shows the number of carbs in foods which may increase your blood sugar levels. The higher the number, the bigger the risk of high blood sugar levels. The numbers range from 0-100 – foods between 0 and 54 are considered low glycemic foods.

HERE’S A LIST OF LOW GI FOODS YOU CAN SAFELY CONSUME MODERATELY:

  • 1 egg: 6
  • A cup of broccoli: 10
  • A cup of hummus:6
  • A cup of nuts: 15
  • A cup of cashew nuts: 22
  • A cup of cherries:22
  • A cup of yogurt: 23
  • Medium-sized onion: 10
  • Medium-sized apple: 38
  • 1 Turkey sausage: 28
  • A cup of spaghetti: 42
  • A cup of green grapes: 46
  • A cup of peas: 54
  • 220 gr. of tomato juice: 38
  • 220 gr. of pineapple juice: 46
  • 1 carrot: 47
  • 1 orange: 48
  • 1 grapefruit: 50
  • 1 banana: 52

HERE ARE SOME FOODS WITH A GLYCEMIC INDEX BETWEEN 55-69:

  • A cup of brown rice: 55
  • 1 serving of mac’n’cheese: 64
  • A tablespoon of honey: 55
  • A cup of oatmeal: 55
  • A cup of white rice: 64

HERE ARE FOODS WITH A HIGH GLYCEMIC INDEX YOU SHOULD AVOID:

  • 2 cups of popcorn: 70
  • Rice cake: 76
  • A slice of white bread: 70
  • 1 doughnut: 76
  • Medium-sized baked potato: 85
  • 1 portion of corn flakes: 92
  • 50 gr. of glucose: 100

Your diet can affect your health in general, so if you experience any symptoms of hyperglycemia, you need to change your habits before major problems occur.